CUDA 11.6 added the `nvcc -arch=native` flag to automatically compile
for the host GPUs' architectures. Add support for specifying this
special `native` value in `CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES` and
`CUDA_ARCHITECTURES`. During the compiler ABI detection step,
detect the native architectures so we can pass them explicitly
when using Clang or older versions of nvcc.
Fixes: #22375
Brad King