chore(nx/desktop): remove unnecessary dependencies & adapt scripts

apps/desktop/package.json

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@
     "@electron/rebuild": "3.7.2"
   },
   "scripts": {
-    "start-prod": "electron dist/main.js",
+    "start-prod": "nx build desktop && cross-env TRILIUM_DATA_DIR=data electron dist/main.js",
     "rebuild": "electron-rebuild"
   },
   "nx": {

apps/server/package.json

@@ -12,7 +12,6 @@
     "async-mutex": "0.5.0",
     "axios": "1.8.4",
     "better-sqlite3": "11.9.1",
-    "bufferutil": "4.0.9",
     "chardet": "2.1.0",
     "cheerio": "1.0.0",
     "chokidar": "4.0.3",
@@ -70,7 +69,6 @@
     "tmp": "0.2.3",
     "turndown": "7.2.0",
     "unescape": "1.0.1",
-    "utf-8-validate": "6.0.5",
     "webpack": "5.99.6",
     "ws": "8.18.1",
     "xml2js": "0.6.2",